Why Breakup Happen?

Well, there are many reasons for breakups, and breakups happen in every person’s life due to distinct reasons. But here we are going to talk about some common reasons which are the main reason for most of the breakups. The mistake every couple makes. There is no couple that does not make this mistake. These are the 5 mistakes that every couple makes. And these are not the only reasons for breakups, these are the reasons for divorce too, and divorces also happen due to these reasons.

1. Space

This is one such common reason due to which couples start feeling pain. The couple does not give any space to each other due to which there is nothing to talk about between them or do anything new, and because of this both get bored with each other. Due to not giving space, both starts fighting. It is particularly important to have space in a relationship. For example, if you do not take even a single day off from your job and work throughout the month without a break, you get exhausted. And because of this, irritation, anger issues, frustration start arising. Similarly, due to lack of space in a relationship, these things start happening in the couple. This is human nature. If a person does not get a break from something, then he starts feeling depressed and he faces all these issues.

2. A loss of Trust

If you look at it, I should have kept it at number 1, But I have placed it on 2nd place. Whether it is 90s or 20s, this is an excessively big reason. When you socialize too much, your partner has trust issues. And due to this reason, many couples break up. This is normal in many couples because they are insecure towards their partners. Due to which they have trust issues. The reason for this could be that they have been cheated by someone in the past, or they may also have trust issues because their partner has more male or female friends.

3. Too much fighting

This is a common reason in every relationship, instead of ignoring unimportant things the couple fights over them. And that fight escalates to such an extent that it reaches the point of breakup. Those things which should be ignored, fight against them. The things that we find cute in the beginning of our relationship start irritating us later. The reasons due to which a couple liked each other, the same things, the same habits irritate us later and then the same becomes the reason for fight.

4. communication

This is not just a love relationship but, in every relationship, there is a reason for the breakup of that relationship. When we are under stress or are upset with something our partner said, we do not communicate, which again creates misunderstanding. It is particularly important to have communication in any relationship. If there is no proper communication, then it creates misunderstanding and then it becomes the reason for fighting. What do you feel about your partner? If you find something wrong with their words, or if something is bothering you because of some third person, then it is important for you to communicate about it with your partner. Which the couple does not do and then becomes the reason for breakup.

5. Fading feelings

This is the reason there was not so much in the 90s. But this is a common reason in today’s times. Because of which the first reason of our blog is “space” and the second reason is social life. People today get to know each other very quickly, due to which their feelings gradually diminish within a few days. Because now they have nothing to talk about or do anything. We spend so much time with each other. Couples become intimate during fist meets and then it continues during every meeting due to which their interest in each other ends. For example, if you are given dal and rice to eat every day in your house, then after a few days you will start hating it.

So, these were some common reasons for breakup, there are some other reasons too which are not common, many couples break up because they are not able to connect with each other physically or emotionally. These are those couples who come in a relationship because someone proposed to them or they were lonely, or after the breakup they were alone and found someone to support them. Due to which those people are not able to connect emotionally or physically after sometime. Physically, there are two types of people who cannot connect. There are some who have just come into a relationship but have no feelings. And there are others who are very romantic, and their sexual desires are not fulfilled by their husbands. They think that their partner is not compatible with them. And he is looking for someone else.