TIME HEALS, JUST LET IT GO

Sometimes it\'s not holding back but letting go..

I know before breakup everyone love story is damn beautiful or damn painful. I m not going to say how my love story ended or not gonna ask how yours love story ended. It was the situation or that person or you who decided leave, I m not gonna ask this. The truth is that IT\'S DONE. IT\'S OVER.

Moving on from a love relationship is really not easy. Please stop thinking that you are the only one who had a breakup! There were humans before you who had a heartbreak.

There are millions of people who\'s heart is broken. So I m giving you some tips to overcome this sadness/pain:

Accept this breakup : You must accept this fact that it is over . You have to face this harsh truth that few people are meant to come and go as lessons.
Don\'t feel rejected : People tend to think that it\'s their fault for the breakup etc. They start to think that they are lacking in something. No you are not ! Remember you are not a chocolate ,you cannot make everyone happy.
Don\'t stay alone : During this time,it\'s really important to socialize and take help from your families and friends. Stay around positive people.
Watch motivational video : start watching motivational videos and read positve quotations.
Don\'t listen to sad/love songs : TTake a break and relax. But please don\'t listen to sad or romantic songs . It will make you more sad.
Don\'t start drinking : Dont drink much at this time. Try to stay conscious. Drinking is a temporary solution , permanent solution is the light of your soul within yourself. Don\'t go to bar/clubs, don\'t go for drugs or smoking also.
Time to focus on your hobbies : Start doing something that you love , writing, painting, etc. Whatever you like to do . Just do.
Go to an orphanage or a charity centre : I know it feels like whole world has fallen apart and theres nothing to live for. Just go to an orphanage or a charity centre, there you will realize what is the value of your life. How people are struggling to live life.
Start noticing the blessings around you: You have your eyes, your ears, you can walk well, you can do whatever you want to. There are people out there who cannot see, who cannot hear. Ask them the value of eyes, ears etc. They will tell you. You are here,on Quora reading this article with your eyes. You have a supporting family and loving friends. The greatest of all blessing is your life. You are alive and you can be strong enough to live this life.
Start focusing on your work/study/career : You are valuable and universe/The God knows it. You don\'t need to think that you are not worth anything because of just one person, who just left you out there in cold. Time to gear up in your career. Be independent be yourself.
If possible go and travel somewhere: If you have money to travel, you must go and travel somewhere around nature.
Pray and meditate : The God remove some people in your life for a reason. The reason which we don\'t know but we know it\'s for our good. Just relax and meditate . You will feel so good spiritually connected to the pure source.
Stop stalking or waiting: JJust block them , stop stalking. Just block them from your phone, from social media , everywhere. Delete their numbers and their photos. Don\'t keep their gifts in front of you. Pack them and keep them in store room. DON\'T WAIT FOR THEM TO REACH YOU. CUT THEM OFF TOTALLY.
Remember Nature and signature never changes: If someone can hurt you once or many times, then do you really think that they can\'t do it next time also? Why so? Why you are fooling yourself? “Once a no is always a no… “ Don\'t expect someone to become better. People never change.Never try to communicate and fix things if you had a person in your life who never loved you or cared about you.
Be your own hero : If you feel like you wanna cry, just go somewhere and cry alone. You will feel better. But please accept the truth that it is for your own goodness. Only you can take this sadness out from yourself. SOME PEOPLE COMES AS BLESSINGS AND SOME PEOPLE COMES AS A LESSON IN YOUR LIFE. YOU ARE BETTER OFF ALONE. YOU DON\'T NEED SOMEBODY WHO IS NOT FOR YOU WHEN YOU NEED THEM .
LOVE IS NOT A CONTRACT. It\'s just equal give and take without dealing any contract. LOVE is pure. IF IT\'S NOT, IT\'S NOT LOVE.
YOU will realize one day, that few people are not meant for you. You deserve better.
TIME HEALS EVERYTHING,IT WILL HEAL YOUR HEART . BE STRONG . Just don\'t take any negative step. One person cannot decide your happy future.